Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Georgia's Always on My My My My My My My My My Mind

(Yes, Beatles pun/quote. Sorry...)

I'm in the Republic of Georgia!

First impressions:

Tbilisi (the capital) is definitely a study in contrasts. The neighborhood where my friend Lisa lives is a warren of twisting cobblestones streets (or streets of no stones at all) that feels very much like a village, even though it's just steps away from one of Tbilisi's major streets. These little side streets do feel like a developing country, with their broken sidewalks and hardscrabble corner stores with dusty signs out front, but the main streets remind me more of Spain or something.

There was a smell in the air, my first day, that was fresh and enticing, strangely different and familiar all at once. Lisa couldn't smell it, since she's already been living here a while. I couldn't smell it after that first day, either.

Grape vines simply drape over everything. And these are real grapes, bursting with flavor, not the supermarket kind. Here's Lisa's street:


People make their own wine. Lisa's wonderful neighbors invited us over to see. They'd bought bags and bags and bags of freshly harvested grapes at the market – the entire garage floor was full of them – and were tipping them into this huge press:


Georgia's legendary hospitality is just as tremendous as I'd always heard. The same neighbors invited us over for a dinner that was an absolute feast. Meat, yes, but also a bunch of delicious vegetable dishes, and wine, wine, wine. (Homemade, goes without saying!) So I got to see the Georgian tradition of toasting: The head of the table makes specific toasts, in a prescribed order, on such themes as peace, loved ones who have died, parents. Everyone lifts their glasses, and once the toastmaster has made the initial toast to a specific theme, others can add what they would like to say on the same topic. It also functions as a way for strangers to get to know each other, Lisa's neighbor Khatuna told us.

Lisa's neighbors speak German, so add Georgia to the surprisingly long list of countries where my German has proven more useful than I have any right to expect. In general, lots of people here speak at least two out of English, German and Russian, if not more languages as well. When I went to the theater box office to get tickets for a dance performance this weekend, the woman working there was older and didn't speak English, so I asked another woman behind me in line to help me; she spoke English to me, then turned around and spoke Russian to the woman behind the counter! And the young woman at the café Lisa and I went to yesterday evening spoke English with us, but then when she heard us speaking German, she got excited and switched to that.

I arrived here speaking zero words of Georgian and only knowing 3 or 4 letters of the alphabet. Whoops. While waiting for my luggage, I quickly memorized "hello" ("gamarjoba"), so I could say it to the taxi driver Lisa had sent to pick me up. I was annoyed with myself, the first day here, because though I'd learned both "hello" and "thank you," I couldn't ever seem to keep both in my head at once – so "hello" or "thank you" were both options, but never both at once. Which was frustrating. But then I remembered that I'd only been here one day. Now I've been here a few days, and I know a handful of words (hello, thank you, goodbye, yes, no, I, bread, coffee, street...) and probably close to half the alphabet. The Georgian script is unrelated to anything else, so mnemonic devices are definitely my friends in this endeavor!

Yesterday, Lisa and I went to a café nearby with our learning-Georgian materials, and had a little study session:


I learned "bread" ("poo-ree," but with the difficult unaspirated "p" that sounds almost like a "b") because I walked into a little tiny basement-level bakery on Lisa's street, run by an elderly woman who definitively would not speak English, and realized I hadn't yet looked up the word for bread. She cackled with delight at my fumbling attempts to read it off of my printed out sheets of vocabulary, and I felt rather pleased to have been the hilarious highlight of her day. We succeeded with one-word sentences and hand gestures.

In restaurants, too, people are understandably proud of their wine and want you to try it, so much so that they'll bring you a glass on the house – that's happened to me twice already in my few days here, once over a meal in restaurant, and once when I'd simply ordered a hot chocolate in a café.

Speaking of hot chocolate... It's the real stuff here, melted down from actual chocolate. Mmmm.

A glass of wine and a view out over the city:


Traffic here is horrendous; the driving style is the same as I'm familiar with in other developing countries where I've traveled, which is to say, conducted with complete disregard for either safety or reality. Think I'll take the train whenever I can...

On the other side of the coin, though, the city itself is incredibly safe. Police are around all the time, just kind of keeping up a reassuring presence, and Lisa says she walks around alone at any time of the day or night with no worries. Georgia apparently managed within the space of just a few years to turn itself around into one of the world's safest countries.

Cats! Cats everywhere. Cats cats cats. Being adorable and savvy and surprisingly okay-looking, healthwise, given that they're street cats. Here are two visitors at the café where I went today:


Wednesday, September 24, 2014

A Good Year, a Year of Peace...

L'shanah tovah, everyone! Happy Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish new year.

Despite having a frantic, panicking-before-a-big-trip sort of day, I was lucky enough to still get a Rosh Hashanah challah from the Jewish bakery down the street, when I dropped in there just before they closed. I'm going to imagine I'm breaking this bread with all of my friends and family out there. May you and all of us have a sweet new year.


Tuesday, September 23, 2014

A Child's Geography

Yesterday I was at a German friend's birthday celebration, which included her two kids, ages 7 and 5. (I arrived just as the earlier party shift of parents-with-young-kids was leaving, and my friend apologized that her birthday party had turned into more of a "children's birthday party" because it was pretty much just lots and lots of kids running around. Cute, though!)

I happened to see a Jacob's ladder on a shelf, and picked it up to look at it, because that's a toy I haven't seen in ages. My friend's daughter (7) came running over to show me how it worked, so I asked her what the toy is called in German, since I only know it in English.

Surprised, she asked, "Were you born in England?" (Which is a very reasonable guess!)

"No, in the US," I said. (Having this conversation in German, of course.) And then because that didn't seem to mean anything to her, I tried, "In America?"

She considered me. "Did you live in France?" (Because her mother works on a lot of German-French collaborations, and has many French friends, so that's the kids' frame of reference for foreignness.)

"No, in America. In the United States."

She cocked her head at me. "Is that even further away than France?"

. . . . .

(The five-year-old son also proudly informed me that he's started learning English in school, and asked if he could have my phone number so he can call me and speak English, once he's learned a bit more!)

Thursday, September 11, 2014

The Next Adventure

I did it. I just sent in my letter giving notice that I'm ending my apartment lease as of the end of this year. It's official. I'm moving on to the next adventure, whatever that may be. It's good and SCARY.

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Photos from Reykjavík

Pictures from the last part of my trip, including:

Delightfully managing to cross paths with German friends passing through Reykjavík, even though we hadn't managed to be in touch beforehand to make a plan (yes – it's the kind of town where you can just go downtown and expect to find the person you're looking for sooner or later); staying with my wonderful friends Arndís and Koosha (who I first met at the Rauðasandur Festival), who invited me into their home and told me to stay as long as I liked; more wonderful concerts of my favorite musicians; getting to be friends with my favorite musicians; Reykjavík's wonderful Gay Pride; hiking on the Snæfellsnes peninsula; hiking Mount Esja, Reykjavík's neighboring mountain; lots of cats; and Culture Night, another of Reykjavík's biggest festivals, which fittingly ended up being my last night in town. So many wonderful days and memories – I've tried to catch a little slice of them here:

ÍSLAND: Return to Reykjavík